What
are our Big Rocks??
On the
first Sunday of August 2010, the first time I led worship here at St.
Paul’s, I shared this story:
As this man stood in front of the group of high-powered
over-achievers he said, "Okay, time for a quiz." Then he
pulled out a one-gallon, wide-mouthed mason jar and set it on a table
in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and
carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar.
When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit
inside, he asked, "Is this jar full?" Everyone in the class
said, "Yes." Then he said, "Really?" He reached
under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped
some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work
themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks.
Then he smiled and asked the group once more, "Is the jar full?"
By this time the class was onto him. "Probably not," one of
them answered. "Good!" he replied. And he reached under the
table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand
in and it went into all the spaces left between the rocks and the
gravel. Once more he asked the question, "Is this jar full?"
"No!" the class shouted. Once again he said, "Good!"
Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the
jar was filled to the brim.
(http://www.appleseeds.org/Big-Rocks_Covey.htm)
What is the point of
the story?
Some
people say that the story tells us that there is always room to add
more. These people tend to be the ones who are so busy they are
working themselves to dis-ease.
The
point of the story is to add the big rocks first. We have to know
what the most important pieces are before we start worrying about the
little ones, because given the chance the little stuff will fill up
our jar and there is no room for the big stuff.
I told
that story 7 years ago for a reason. As we started a new relationship
I wanted us to be clear about what the top priority items were, where
we needed to spend the brunt of our energy. Now I want us to have the
discussion again.
A few
weeks ago I was looking at the “rogues gallery” in the narthex.
And as I looked I realized that over the last 30 years St. Paul’s
has called a new minister every 5-9 years. That means that at regular
intervals the congregation has, in whatever way the United Church
structured it at the time, had a chance to ask itself what its
priorities are, what the ministry needs of the congregation and
community are. Key questions as we strive to be the church God calls
us to be in Grande Prairie.
It is
my belief that in a changing world we need to intentionally ask
ourselves these sort of questions. I know that I personally am really
good at getting into a pattern, or routine, or even a rut. I think
communities have the same tendency. We keep on as we have been going.
Unless we ask if this is the best way to keep going that is.
At most
of our meetings Council takes time to have some sort of visioning
conversation. One of the results of those conversations has been the
revival of a Pastoral Visiting Team. This fall Council is going (they
agreed to this at our June meeting) to work at bringing the rest of
the congregation into that visioning discussion. As a prelude to this
I asked them to think about the big rocks.
Now I
ask you. What are the key things we do as a congregation? What are
the big things you feel God is calling us to do as we move forward to
meet the spiritual needs of those inside the building and the
community which surrounds us?
God has
called us to be the church in such a time as this. God is challenging
us to be clear about why we are here. What are you hearing?
GORD
PS:
I have some dreams. But I want to hear yours first.