How do you feed your Spirit?
A month ago I attended a
continuing-education event developing spiritual leadership. One of
the points being made was that to provide spiritual leadership one
needs to develop and feed one's own spirituality.
Coincidentally, at yesterday's meeting
of the Grande Prairie ministerial the devotion was about dealing with
or avoiding exhaustion and burn-out. And the proposition was that
one reason church leaders end up exhausted is that in the pressure to
live out the commandment to love our neighbours as ourselves we
neglect the commandment to love God with our whole being. And then
we fail to take care of the relationship with the One in whom, to
quote St. Paul, we live and move and have our being.
So, in the midst of the busy-ness of
the world, how do you feed your Spirit?
As I have told many people over the
years, it is my firm belief that all people have a spiritual side
that needs to be fed. Some people meet that need through yoga, or
Tai Chi, or walking along the lake/seashore, or through artistic
endeavours, or through participation in a faith community [note that
this is a sample list, there are many other possibilities]. Some
people (maybe most people) use a combination of things. Some people
are not aware of the need at all – until something goes wrong. But
my bias is that we all have this need and that if we do not meet it
we will pay a price.
So how do you feed your spirit?
What price might we pay if we do not
take care of our spiritual side? What happens if life becomes
unbalanced in this way?
I suggest we might find our energy and
passion failing us. I suggest we might lose sight of what is
important in our lives. I suggest that our quality of life feels
lower. I suggest that in the end it will start to impact our
physical and mental health, that it impacts how able we are to do our
daily tasks.
So how do you feed your spirit?
When I have this sort of discussion
with couples preparing to get married I make it clear that this is
not the “come to church” bit of the process. Because after all,
I am talking to adults who can (and will) make their own choices.
But I have the discussion because it is my firm belief (and I share
my obvious bias that this work is best done in community) that caring
for our whole selves makes us healthier individuals, healthier
spouses, healthier parents, etc. And so I have an ethical
responsibility to bring it up. Now I have a further question for
you:
How does/could being part of THIS faith
community feed your spirit? How do we support each other in
developing as spiritual beings? How might we do it better? Too
often, in my experience anyway, United Church folk become too
rational, too focused on practical matters. I think we can do far
better at helping each other grow spiritually. And I want us to find
ways to do that. Starting in the fall. Who's with me?
In the meantime, over the summer, be
sure to take time to feed your spirit!