- Genesis 25:19–34
- Genesis 27:1-41
Early Thoughts: Twin brothers, at odds since the womb. And it doesn't help that the younger twin appears to have a faulty moral compass.
Jacob (whose name means he takes by the heel or he supplants according to the footnote in the NRSV) is an interesting character to say the least. As the story progresses he will be renamed Israel (one who strives with God), he will have 12 sons (by 4 different women) and will become the father of a nation -- the people of Israel. But he gets there by trickery, deceit, and (almost) outright theft. He is, at best, a flawed hero. Or maybe he is a chance to reveal that God chooses to use the oddest people.
First he extorts the birthright, the inheritance of the firstborn, from his brother Esau. Yes maybe Esau shows signs of poor decision making in trading his birthright for a bowl of stew, but who does that to a hungry brother? Then with the support and urging of his mother (apparently Rebekah has a favourite son) he deceives his blind aging father to steal the blessing that was supposed to go to Esau. Is it any wonder that Esau threatens to kill Jacob?
Not that Jacob seems to learn from his fear. His relationship with his father-in-law is one of mutual distrust and deception. So much so that when Jacob leaves that household many years later (stealing the family idols at the time) his father-in-law's parting words are a threat/curse/warning [though it sounds like a blessing] "May God watch between me and thee, while we are absent one from another".
The strange thing is, for all the talk in Judaism and Christianity about loving your neighbour, about brotherhood, about family, there is no family in Genesis that actually seems to get along. Brothers are constantly at odds with each other, wives are jealous of each other. Yes later Jacob and Esau reconcile, but before that happens, as Jacob is returning home, he is terrified about what his brother will do when they are once again together.
So what is there in here for us? Well we all have times when we have trouble getting along with our brothers and sisters (both the blood relatives and the metaphorical relatives). If we are honest there are times when we have not dealt properly with our siblings. There are times we have acted like rivals instead of family members. And sometimes we reconcile like Jacob and Esau do. Sometimes we don't and the family or the community is split.
How will we deal with our petty, and our not so petty, disagreements and rivalries? If we are all family (blood or metaphorical) ho will we grow the family stronger despite the times one of us acts like a jerk?